Ella Camp

How To Celebrate or Not To Celebrate the Holiday Season- That Is the Question



Posted: Thursday, December 15, 2011

by Ella Camp

The metaphor of the Holiday prescription; “And all shall take this medication,” A designed proclamation from the powers that be- the euphemistic ‘they’ who say, and direct the workings of the society we live in. “They” prescribe this metaphoric medication of Holiday hiatus in the regular flow of our lives.

Some, who need this medication, and firmly believe in its efficacy, may do well in its consumption. But, and there is always a “but,” there are those who neither need nor want to swallow the pill at this time- their condition does not warrant it. Perhaps, in their particular case, the need and possibility for a holiday hiatus will come at a different time- a different month than the one prescribed for all.

We must, and for the most part, do, judge our need and desire for this mass prescribed Holiday season.

Taking a medication not prescribed for our individual condition, can, and has traditionally, caused adverse reactions of pain and suffering that we are unable to tolerate or combat. Upon experience of this chaotic rejection, we, as a society are arriving at the crossroads of individual choice. Our culture is changing and evolving. No longer is the choice of forgoing the bandwagon and the tune it plays looked at askance. Freedom of choice is being recognized- the human right to choose for ourselves, according to our condition and circumstances whether or not we wish to take a holiday hiatus in our lives.

 Nowadays, more often than not, most of us will, in an effort to join the mass celebration, swallow a placebo, but march to the beat of our own drum. We’ve come to realize that one size does not fit all.

Although “All joining together,” is the human ultimate aim; we needs must each become individually complete before we can join together with any lasting unity.

“Empherial things cannot last; but will evaporate like mist in the sunlight of reality.”

I wish you a happy whatever- whenever you may choose to celebrate.
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Top-level comments on this article: (4 total)
» left by Jennifer Stewart
162 days 6 hours ago.
153 fans.
Beautiful, Ella. I also think this is the dawning of the era of individuality, and the realization that unless we become individually complete we can't join together, it's impossible. The idea that paying attention to ourselves prohibits connection with our fellow human is finally being seen for what it is - incomplete. Will we ever dare to make self-love our aim, knowing that the result will be better connection with everybody else? I hope so. I love your medication metaphor, it's so apt! And happy whatever whenever you choose to celebrate it, also!
» left by Ella Camp 160 days 22 hours ago.
90 fans.
Thank you so much Jenn- for reading, and for your welcome and astute comment. It's really simple isn't it? We can't give someone something that we don't possess for ourselves. Again- thanks- Always Ella
» left by Christofer French
162 days 1 hour ago.
74 fans.
I love observing the mind of the ultimate think for yourself person. Yes. we should not be corralled in to feeling the love, and yes, I have had times when I was glad I was dragged to a holdiay occasion because, otherwise I would not have given the love that I wanted to. Oh well, yes very much to your article. It made me think.
» left by Ella Camp 160 days 23 hours ago.
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Hi Chris, always glad to see you. Your comment made me chuckle. Must you be coerced into giving, or does the Holiday Season simply provide a comfortable forum in which to express yourself? Perhaps that's what people wait for- the appointed time to say something. Seems that society has programed us that way. As always- I sincerely thank you for reading and commenting. Always Ella
» left by Jack H. Schick 154 days 6 hours ago.
99 fans.
If I see the Universe being centered here I can't comprehend medicine being forced on me. I choose to take it or not. The society 'stuff' is external to that which is me. Thanks- very well done essay. Provokes thought.
» left by Ella Camp 153 days 23 hours ago.
90 fans.
Thanks Jack- that was the objective. You are obviously one who marches to the beat of his own drum- and doesn't allow society, in any form, hold your drumsticks- as am I.

I wish you happiness- in whatever you want to be happy in. Always- Ella
» left by The Old Gray Mare
146 days 17 hours ago.
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There are way too many "medications" being forced on us. I pick and choose. A well-written and explained metaphor and so on target!
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